How do I cope with it?

Well this month there's not much chance im going to conceive, we baby danced on sunday but my bf has gone away with work for a week and its right through my fertile time. So how am i not meant to get worked up and cope with the stress. Im finding the ''waiting'' really hard, i just want it to happen already!! =/ Anyone else feel like me?? Also lets hear some good news ladies, who's got their BFP recently?? :) xxxxx 10 points up for grabs :)